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             THE WEEKLY PUBLICATION FOR EVERY JEWISH PERSON
   Dedicated to the memory of Rebbetzin Chaya Mushka Schneerson N.E.
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        May 9, 2008               Emor             4 Iyyar, 5768
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                                Updates

If you have a computer, you're familiar with the term. Updates come in
all sizes and shapes, for all programs and operating systems. Some
updates are enhancements (whatever they mean by that), some add new
features, some fix bugs, some make the program compatible with an update
someplace else - an update to the operating system or another program.

Some updates stop viruses. Some are so radical it's like getting a whole
new program.

Some updates you don't have much choice about. Some you really need to
download and install. Some are a matter of preference. But they're
always there. Isn't it nice to know that the friendly  programmers are
always trying to make their programs better, more efficient, more
productive, more user-friendly?

Just as our software needs an occasional update, so do our souls.
Sometimes we only need a minor upgrade. Sometimes our spiritual
"operating system" has gotten too complicated, runs too slow, or has too
many bugs in it. When that is the case, we need a major update.
Sometimes we're ready to enhance our spiritual performance, add new
features, new mitzvot - commandments.

There are times and seasons and events that signal an update is needed:
Big ones are life-changing events, of course, like a Bar or Bat Mitzvah
or a wedding. At these times the spiritual operating system gets an
update - our Jewish involvement and observance increases in quality as
well as quantity.

Other update times are also pre-set. Each Jewish holiday bring with it a
modification in our understanding, in the efficiency of how we operate
spiritually. On Chanuka a "bug" is fixed, on Passover we add a "new
feature." Each holiday focuses on a particular aspect or function of
the program; the next year, when that holiday arrives, there's an
enhancement to that function, a new feature to Shavuot - an insight
we've gained, some enhanced appreciation, some deeper involvement.

And of course, there's the regularly scheduled weekly maintenance update
- Shabbat.

Other times, we update ourselves by increasing our Jewish knowledge:
attending a Torah class, studying on-line, on the phone (jnet.org), or
from a book. Or we start giving tzedaka (charity) regularly by putting a
few coins in the tzedaka box daily or making sure to support Jewish
causes. When asked why, we often don't know where the impetus came from.
But of course it's really our internal, spiritual operating system
connecting to the "main server" and automatically downloading updates.

Whatever the reason for the spiritual update - fixing a bug, making our
"software" more efficient (doing a mitzva with more care, more attention
to detail), adding a feature (taking on an extra mitzva), or enhancing
functions (increasing our Torah learning, in a class or online), etc. -
it's important to regularly update our spiritual software.

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           LIVING WITH THE REBBE  -  THE WEEKLY TORAH PORTION
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This week's Torah portion, Emor, speaks about the Divinely-ordained
weekly cycle, the fundamental clock by which Jewish life is lived and
celebrated. "Six days shall work be done, and the seventh day is the
Sabbath of rest."

Yet this reference to the observance of Shabbat contains an even deeper
significance. Our Sages explain that just as the six work days of the
week serve as preparation for the seventh day of rest, so too, do the
6,000 years of the world's existence since creation serve as preparation
for the Messianic Era, a time that will commence before the seventh
millenium. (The final Redemption can come at any time; six thousand
years is the maximum foretold by the Torah.)

For almost 6,000 years, the world has been involved in an ongoing
process of preparation, getting ready for the culmination of the Divine
plan. Over the course of thousands of years, the study of Torah and the
observance of mitzvot (commandments) have purified and refined the world
into a state of being capable of absorbing the great G-dly revelation
that will occur with the final Redemption.

This pinnacle of human existence, the purpose for which the world was
created, has been termed by our Sages "the day which will be all Sabbath
and rest for life everlasting."

The Biblical term, "Shabbat Shabbaton" (a Sabbath of rest), a repetition
of the same root word, alludes to the two levels of sanctity that exist
on Shabbat. "Shabbat" refers to the actual cessation of labor;
"Shabbaton" implies the extra dimension of holiness felt on that day,
the inner quietude and sense of rest that reign independent of our
actions.

"A day of rest and holiness You have given to Your people," we pray in
the Sabbath service. As the prayer implies, our enjoyment and
appreciation of Shabbat are dependent upon the energy we expend and the
sincerity of our efforts during the six days of the week which precede
it. This added measure of holiness on Shabbat is attained in the merit
of our labors and the good deeds we accomplish during this time.

This principle holds true on the larger scale as well.

We find ourselves now in the very last seconds of the exile, just
moments before the ultimate "Sabbath of rest" is about to begin. For
indeed, the 6,000 years of service prior to Moshiach's arrival have not
only prepared the world for the first phase of the Messianic Era but
have readied the world for the extra dimension of holiness that will
reign during the Days of Moshiach. At that time, evil will be totally
subjugated to good and the "spirit of uncleanliness" will have entirely
disappeared from the face of the earth.

  From a discourse of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, "Vayakhel Moshe," 5714

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                             SLICE OF LIFE
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                         Honoring Your Parents
                           by Rabbi Eli Hecht

It has been said, "You appreciate your health when you start to lose
it." This message came home to me recently in full force. Our family's
home is a fourth generation, raised in Brooklyn, New York. As we, the
children, and grandchildren, grew up we moved to different states and
countries. I have a brother in Connecticut, another in France, and three
of us in California. My sisters are living in different areas of New
York and one lives in Michigan. What brings the family together are the
simchas - joys. At times, unfortunately, it is sadness or sickness.

In Yiddish there is an expression "A mentch tracht, un Got lacht - man
thinks and G-d laughs." We have all kinds of plans but G-d's plans are
the ones that really come to fruition. Man can plan and plan but it is
G-d who has the final word at the end.

This brings to light the latest drama of my growing, but aging family.
My father, who is in his mid-eighties, lives in Brooklyn. He decided to
spend the winter months in Florida and the warmer months in New York. "I
am now a snow bird" he told me. Older New Yorkers usually escape the
freezing winters of the east and go for a warm respite in Miami Beach.
By doing so they stay healthy and live a longer life. Indeed it's been
reported that the elderly now live longer than ever because they move to
a warmer climate and stay away from the cold.

One day I received a phone call from one of my sisters: "I am in Miami.
The weather is beautiful but Dad is very sick and I am off to the
hospital." There he was diagnosed with bilateral pneumonia and a
compromised immune system. He was admitted to the hospital and a crisis
began. He wanted to go home and the doctors wanted him in their care. My
father said that hospitals are for the dying and the sick people and he
would want no part of this! Little did he realize that he was a true
candidate for the hospital!

After forcing him to be admitted to the hospital, he slowly but surely
began the long journey to recovery. When I received the call in
California I knew I was sorely needed. I dropped everything and went to
spend a marathon of days in the hospital. Each day was a challenge.
Would he get better? How long would it take for him to recover? How
about his sodium and his blood count? Plus an array of other medical
concerns.

After six horrendous days I realized that he had turned the tide when he
said, "The food is lousy, it's time to go home. Shabbat (the Sabbath) is
coming and I need to be with my people."

We spoke with the physicians and head staff at the hospital and they
agreed that we could see how my father fared at "home" in his rental
condo. He wanted to be able to join his friends - the other snow birds
from New York.

I took my father home and spent a great weekend with him; no doctors and
nurses, just father and son bonding time. I served him breakfast, lunch,
and supper. I washed his laundry, gave him his medicine, called his
doctors, coordinated his sleeping times and we went for a walk. We even
found time to watch a wrestling match. And what a bonding we had. After
such a medical storm I was  really able to appreciate the calm.

This made me think about the following: Why is it when it comes to
sickness we have the time for our parents but when they are healthy we
are too busy to see them? Whatever happened to honoring our father and
mother when they are well?

Strange, I thought to myself, but the only real time we stop everything
for our parents is when there is a crisis. This realization made me
decide that I am going to change my lifestyle. I'll pencil in my
calendar and schedule a time to spend with my aging father now, when he
is well and happy. I will make the time because that is when a father
and son can really do things and enjoy each other's company.

I share this lesson with you because we are living in a time when there
is a growing senior population and we need to make time in our busy
schedules for our parents while we can enjoy eachother's company.

So let's start to care while we are young and healthy, by doing so we
will keep the elderly going and happy. My father is getting older, but
not old.

Society needs to change its habits. In the workplace there are days
allocated for paid sick leave, maternity leave, vacation, and jury duty.
I think with all the squabbling taking place between the presidential
candidates there should be a platform for paid leave when honoring one's
parents! In the Bible (and so far, every U.S. president has been sworn
in with his hand on the Bible) it says (Ex. 20:12): "Honor your father
and mother and your days will be long upon the land which the Lord G-d
has given you."

One of the classes that I give on a weekly basis at Chabad of South Bay
in Lomita, California, is to seniors. They tell me, "You are as old as
you make yourself." Teaching these seniors, most of them in their 70s
and 80s, is one of the things that keeps me going! I would like to
encourage everyone of all ages to make an effort to spend time with
seniors. And even more importantly, pick up the phone, jump in the car
or hop on a plane and visit your elderly relatives. You will be happy
you did.

    Rabbi Eli Hecht is vice-president of the Rabbinical Alliance of
    America. He is the director of Chabad of South Bay in Lomita which
    houses a synagogue, day school, nursery school and chaplaincy
    programs.

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                               WHAT'S NEW
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                            Keeping In Touch

Keeping In Touch, vol. 3 is sure to provide weekly inspiration. Every
section explores a theme with a telling personal encounter with the
Lubavitcher Rebbe; a thought on the Torah portion or holiday; and a
closing composition to guide the reader from inspiration to action.
Published by Sichos in English.

                        Creation and Redemption

This latest release from the Chasidic Heritage Series, Creation and
Redemption is one of the first discourses delivered by the previous
Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn, upon arriving in
America. This is an exploration of the mystical meaning of the Hebrew
months of Tishrei and Nissan, eloquently translated into English by
Rabbi Yosef Marcus, published by Kehot.

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                            THE REBBE WRITES
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                           Freely translated

                         18 Shvat, 5716 (1856)

... My father-in-law, the Rebbe, of blessed memory, related the
statement of his father, the Rebbe Rashab, of blessed memory: "See how
precious is the body of a Jew - for its sake has G-d poured forth so
much Torah and mitzvos (commandments)."

When G-d gives each and every one of us something as precious as the
body, we are to make every effort and truly exert ourselves to insure
that the body be healthy. In so doing, we make it possible to fulfill
G-d's will of performing Torah and mitzvos, which is specifically
performed with the body.

This is as Maimonides states in Hilchos Deos, beginning of ch. 4, that
"maintaining a healthy and whole body is an integral part of one's
Divine service." And then there is the letter of the Maggid of Mezritch
(printed in HaTamim) to his son, the holy "Malach," (angel) in which he
states: "A small hole in the body causes a large hole in the soul."

My intent is not to lecture - rather, it is my hope that the above will
hopefully have a positive effect on you, and through you it will also
have an effect upon your husband.

Although the Zohar does state that the "strength of the soul leads to
the weakening of the body," this is to be understood in the context of
the spiritual power and potency of the holy soul weakening the corporeal
demands of the body - not, Heaven forbid, weakening the health of the
body.

Indeed, we readily observe that when a person is healthy he can
accomplish so much more in all areas [than when he is unhealthy,]
particularly with regard to matters relating to love of G-d, love of
Torah and love of a fellow Jew. ...

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                     Igros Kodesh, Vol. IV, p. 341


I received with pleasure and joy your letter.... I was already concerned
that I had not heard from you for a while, although I was partly
mollified by the letter that I received from your son, which contained
regards from you.

I am pleased that you found a residence [in Florida], and I hope that
you and your wife will feel good there and be able to use the time to
truly strengthen your physical health, which for a Jew also leads to
health of the soul.

As the Maggid of Mezritch wrote to his son, Reb Avraham the "Malach" -
who very much followed the course of fasting and self-mortification, and
in general was detached from this corporeal world and whose father would
often try to convince him not to serve G-d in this manner - "A small
hole in the body causes a large hole in the soul."

We readily observe this with our own eyes: that those individuals who
desire to serve G-d - and their bodies do not interfere by being weak
and the like - are able to serve Him in a more complete manner.

In addition to the above, it is also explained in many sefarim (holy
books) that the body is not a person's possession, but belongs to G-d.
Therefore a person must take care of himself and see that his body is in
good condition (understandably not at the expense of damaging his soul).

This is also why, according to Jewish law, a person who inflicts injury
on himself, although he is not subject to punishment in a human court of
law, is guilty according to the laws of Heaven.

In the words of the Alter Rebbe: "A person has no rights at all over his
body, neither to smite it, nor to shame it, nor to torment it with any
sort of pain, unless he does so as a form of repentance, for this pain
[for the sake of repentance] is doing the person a service - to save
himself from Purgatory."

I hope that you will soon find a circle of friends there upon whom you
will be able to exert an influence, so that they will become not only
physically healthy in Florida, but spiritually healthy as well.

           From Healthy in Body, Mind and Soul, translated by Rabbi
                 Sholom B. Wineberg, published by Sichos in English

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                                CUSTOMS
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    Why is it customary to give charity before praying on weekdays?

To dispel whatever may hamper the acceptability of one's prayers,
charity should be given before praying. Thus we find that before praying
Rabbi Eliezer would give a pauper a coin, in the spirit of the verse,
"With tzedek - righteousness - (like tzedaka - charity) shall I behold
Your countenance." For accusatory voices On High adjudge whether a
worshipper is indeed worthy of entering the heavenly palace of the King
of Kings in prayer. Yet "charity rescues..." and "charity elevates a
nation..." Also, by giving a poor man charity before prayer and thereby
giving him life, one's prayers come alive.

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                        A WORD FROM THE DIRECTOR
                         Rabbi Shmuel M. Butman
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This Shabbat we study Chapter 2 of Ethics of the Fathers, which contains
the following:

"Rabbi Shimon said: Be meticulous in reading the 'Shema' and in prayer.
When you pray, do not make your prayer a routine [perfunctory] act, but
rather entreaty for mercy and supplication before G-d, as it is stated,
'For He is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in
loving-kindness, and relenting of the evil decree.'"

Our Sages taught that a Jew shouldn't look upon praying as a burden or
heavy yoke he can't wait to be relieved of each day. Praying to G-d is
one of the foundations of Judaism, as it helps instill an awareness that
G-d is in charge of the world, and that His Divine Providence extends to
every single detail.

Prayer is a commandment for everyone, great and small. The positive
commandment to ask G-d to provide us with our needs applies to all Jews,
regardless of how close or estranged we imagine ourselves to be from
Him. The King listens to all His subjects equally, and no matter is too
unimportant to "bother" Him with.

Another point: Prayer is different from learning Torah in terms of the
perception of our relationship. When a Jew studies Torah, he feels like
a student before his Master. But when we pray to G-d, we feel like
children entreating our Father.

No one said praying is easy; that's why it's called "avoda," which
literally means "work." But as Chasidut explains, prayer is "the ladder
set up on the earth, and the top of it reaches to heaven."
(Incidentally, sincerity is the key here, even if a person doesn't
understand the meaning of the Hebrew words; the only stipulation is that
"they be said imploringly and from the depths of his heart.") For every
Jew has the power and potential to climb up the rungs to even the very
highest of spiritual levels, thereby connecting himself to his Divine
Source.

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                          THOUGHTS THAT COUNT
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None of them shall defile himself, among his people (b'amav) (Lev. 21:1)

The Hebrew word "amav" is related to the word "im'um," dimming or
growing dark, as in dying embers or coals that have been left to burn
out on their own. Serving G-d "dimly," halfheartedly and without fervor,
is the cause of all defilement and impurity. The Torah warns us against
allowing our G-dly spark to grow dim. Rather, it must be constantly
nurtured and rekindled.

                                           (The Rebbe of Alexander)

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But the seventh day is the Shabbat of rest, a holy convocation (Lev.
23:3)

According to the Midrash, the Torah was worried about being neglected
once the Jews entered the Land of Israel. "Master of the Universe!" it
cried. "What is going to happen to me? Everyone will be busy sowing and
planting..." G-d, however, assuaged its fears. "I am giving you a
special partner," He said, "and that is the Shabbat, when the Jews are
free from work. On that day they will gather in the synagogues and study
halls to engage in study."

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And you shall count unto yourselves from the morrow after the day of
rest (Lev. 23:15)

In our times the counting of the omer is a Rabbinic decree, as without a
physical Holy Temple in Jerusalem we obviously cannot bring the omer
offering. That is why we conclude our counting with the words "May the
Merciful One restore the Holy Temple to its place, speedily in our day":
When Moshiach comes and the Temple is rebuilt, the omer offering will be
reinstated.

                                                  (Yalkut Yitzchak)

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And when you reap the harvest of your land... to the poor and to the
stranger shall you leave them [the corners of the field] (Lev. 23:22)

"Why is this verse suddenly inserted into a section of the Torah that
deals with festivals?" asks the commentator Rashi. After a person has
given charity to the poor for Passover and made the announcement, "All
who are hungry may come and eat" at the seder table, he may think that
he has sufficiently fulfilled the mitzva of charity. The Torah reminds
us that charity is a mitzva that applies throughout the year.

                                                   (Likrat Shabbat)

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                            IT ONCE HAPPENED
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In the years before Reb Mordechai of Neshitz became known as a tzadik
and leader of many Chasidim, he was the rabbi of a small,
poverty-stricken town far off the beaten track.

Although he held a position of authority and honor, his congregants were
far too poor to pay him a decent salary, and so, he was as poor as they
were. His wages were so meager that he could afford only the barest
necessities of life, and to make matters worse, he received the money
only sporadically. When times were really bad, he would visit the
broken-down shop of the town pawnbroker who would give him a few coppers
to tide him over.

Life in the small town was a difficult struggle, but Reb Mordechai's
spiritual life was bright. The highlight of his life came when he would
make his periodic visits to his rebbe, the tzadik, Reb Michel of
Zlotchov.

Lacking the money to travel in comfort, Reb Mordechai would take up his
walking stick and make his way to Zlotchov by foot.

With only a few crusts of bread to tide him over, he would sludge
through muddy roads and forbidding woods. Only the thought of the
spiritual feast or the desperately needed advice of his rebbe made the
long trip bearable.

One wintry day, Reb Mordechai sat in his cold cottage, surrounded by his
hungry wife and children, and of course, there was not a penny in the
house. Their misery was compounded by the dampness of the many puddles
which dotted his cottage, small ponds formed by the melting ice which
dripped through the holes in the roof. What was there to do, other than
to undertake the arduous journey to Reb Michel of Zlotchov.

It was a hungry, worn out Reb Mordechai who arrived one freezing morning
in a village where a certain wealthy Chasid lived.

Surely, he would provide a warm repast for the traveler. But, no, when
Reb Mordechai knocked on the door and asked for food, the Chasid
replied, "Don't you know I'm marrying off my daughter tomorrow?! I don't
have time to cater to every wanderer who happens to pass by!" Reb
Mordechai was shocked, but he departed without a word and continued on
his journey.

When he finally arrived in Zlotchov, he received a warm welcome, a warm
meal and an invitation - to join the Rebbe at the wedding of a wealthy
Chasid the following day. Reb Mordechai happily agreed to join the
celebration. Can you imagine his surprise when they pulled up in front
of the same house he had left with a rumbling stomach the day before!

When the master of the house came to greet the Rebbe, he saw that the
Rebbe's companion was none other than the "beggar" he had so rudely
turned away from his house. The wealthy Chasid was beside himself with
remorse and shame, and he fell on the floor, pleading for forgiveness.
Reb Mordechai and the Rebbe observed his outburst in silence. When the
man finally calmed down Reb Mordechai spoke: "The sin of refusing to
provide food for a hungry Jew is so great that it reaches the highest
heavens. When the pain of that Jew reaches Heaven, it causes a very
severe decree to fall upon the one who caused the suffering." The
wealthy man began to plead even more bitterly, until Reb Mordechai said,
"I forgive you, and I hope that G-d will do the same."

Then, Reb Michel spoke very solemnly: "We should all beg the Al-mighty
to forgive, and if there should be an evil decree, let it all be vented
on bricks and stones." The guests glanced at one another nervously.
Suddenly screams were heard: "Fire! Help!"

Everyone ran outside to find people running from all sides carrying
buckets of water. But it was impossible to douse the flames which had
already consumed most of the surrounding buildings, property of the
wealthy Chasid, who had suddenly become a poor man. Indeed, no sooner
had the Rebbe spoken, than his words had come true. All of the property
was lost; all the lives were saved.

The next day, before Reb Michel was to leave, his host came to bid him
farewell. "Remember," said the Rebbe, "we must thank G-d for whatever
happens to us, for were it not for His great mercies, our sins would
consume us. When you failed to provide food to a hungry traveler, it was
decreed in Heaven that your entire family die on the wedding day. But
instead, through intense prayers, the verdict was changed and only your
property was lost."

The Chasid lived to see his fortunes restored, but every day of his life
was illuminated by the lesson he had learned. He became known as one of
the most charitable men in his city, and his table provided nobly for
the many guests from whom his blessings came.

                                     Adapted from www.OhrTmimim.org

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                            MOSHIACH MATTERS
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The "Hamotzee" blessing recited before eating bread reads: "Blessed are
You, L-rd our G-d, King of the Universe, Who brings forth bread from the
earth." Why do we thank G-d for "bringing forth bread from the earth"
when in reality it yields wheat, which must then be baked into bread?
According to the Talmud, when Moshiach comes the earth will produce
ready-made bread. Our Sages instituted the blessing with these
particular words in anticipation of the Messianic era.

                                                  (Toldot Yitzchak)

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