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             THE WEEKLY PUBLICATION FOR EVERY JEWISH PERSON
   Dedicated to the memory of Rebbetzin Chaya Mushka Schneerson N.E.
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        October 31, 2008         Noach          2 Cheshvan, 5769
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                             Leash the Dog

Perhaps you've had this experience: You're walking along, absorbed in
your own thoughts, when some guy comes jogging towards you. But he's not
alone. He's got a dog. Unleashed.

Or maybe you're in the park with your kids. From out of nowhere streaks
a dog, its owner yelling frantically - maybe trying to get it to chase a
frisbee instead of your kid.

Or you're walking your own dog - which of course you keep leashed -
when, another dog, bigger, faster, comes flying in from nowhere, making
a direct line for your more restrained, less aggressive pet.

Now in all three scenarios, one of two things can happen: the unleashed
dog can be as friendly as its owner says it is. Or, despite the helpless
protestations of the owner, the dog goes into attack mode.

In the first case, the unleashed dog just wants to play. With you. With
its dirty paws all over you.

Or with your child, who's scared out of her mind, because the dog's
bigger, faster and knocking her down or running over her.

In the last scenario, you probably don't want your dog trying to run off
with the stranger's dog.

So except in designated doggy areas, leash the dog.

There's a spiritual parallel to this, of course, because we all have our
"inner dogs." The animal within us - the animal soul - can take many
metaphoric forms, but surely it can be a bit dog-like.

What does that mean? All dogs share two traits: they're loyal and
they're undisciplined - impulsive, if you prefer.

Our inner dog is the same way: it's loyal, it's the inner emotional
response that justifies our mood. Did someone "stroke" us? Do we see a
game we'd like to join? Or has someone entered our space? Is someone
else getting attention? That awakens our inner attack dog.

And our inner dog - the animal part of ourselves that we pamper (it's
okay not to exercise, it's all right to skimp on a mitzva) or allow to
sic (so what if I embarrassed him, who cares if the candy might not be
kosher) - acts impulsively.

Our "inner dog" can't help itself any more than a real one. But we can
help it. Because there's one other critical trait dogs have: they can be
trained. And they can be leashed.

We can do the same with our "inner dog." We can train it. You put a coin
in a pushka (charity box) before your morning coffee. You look for the
kosher symbol on the product before you buy it. You read the weekly
Torah thought that the rabbi sends you before you delete it.

But even when we've trained ourselves, gotten our "inner dog"
disciplined, we have to remember that by nature it's impulsive. It'll
forget all that training in an instant to chase a squirrel or dig up the
yard. In other words, we might let our enthusiasm for "dog things" run
wild. We might become energized by chasing cars or scaring children,
thinking both are forms of play.

That's why our "inner master," our rational soul, has to keep our "inner
dog" on a leash. We have to discipline ourselves, train ourselves,
restrain ourselves.

Then we can take our "inner dog" for a walk, among people and other
dogs. We might even be able to enter it into a spiritual dog show -
where it could be a real prize winner.

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           LIVING WITH THE REBBE  -  THE WEEKLY TORAH PORTION
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This week's Torah portion, Noach, begins with G-d's description of Noach
[Noah]: "Noach was a righteous man, perfect in his generation." Even
though Noach lived in a generation of sinful individuals, he nonetheless
merited to receive this praiseworthy description from G-d.

Noach was the only member of his generation who behaved properly; the
conduct of everyone else living at that time was depraved. But Noach was
not ashamed of acting differently. He served G-d in an open manner.

In the merit of his exemplary behavior, Noach and his family survived
the Great Flood while all others perished. Indeed, it was Noach and his
children who re-populated the world and through whom humankind continues
to exist. An entirely "new world" was established by Noach, as it were.

In truth, Noach's conduct contains a valuable teaching for every Jew. It
sometimes happens that a Jew may want to do a particular mitzva
(commandment), but the yetzer hara (evil inclination) whispers: "Take a
good look around! Do you see anyone else doing this mitzva? You
shouldn't do it, either."

Or, one might want to study Torah with diligence, but the yetzer hara
intervenes. "Look around you," the yetzer hara stops him. "No one else
takes his studies so seriously. Why must you be different from everyone
else? Better you should close your books and do something else."

There are many instances in which the evil inclination tries to stop a
Jew from doing a mitzva. Why, the entire world is filled with millions
of people, and most of them are behaving in an entirely different
fashion! How can you, a single and solitary individual, announce to the
entire world (by doing that mitzva) that all of creation belongs to G-d?
Why should you be different and recite a verse from Torah stating that
"In the beginning G-d created the heavens and the earth"?

The arguments of the evil inclination must be answered by following
Noach's example.

Just as Noach disregarded his surroundings, so too must every Jew pay no
attention to the conduct of friends and colleagues when it is not in
accordance with the teachings of the Torah. And just as Noach succeeded
in his path, which was different from the rest of society's, so too,
will every Jew succeed in conquering his yetzer hara, allowing him to
learn Torah and observe mitzvot even in a hostile environment.

After the Flood, Noach merited to establish a new world. Similarly,
every Jew has the power to save an entire world and bring redemption
with "Moshiach Now!"

     Based on an address of the Lubavitcher Rebbe to Tzivos Hashem;
                                                  Hitva'aduyot 5743

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                             SLICE OF LIFE
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                          by Hana Levi Julian

When Sara Elise and Rebecca Paul were planning their Bat Mitzvah in
Yardley, Pennsylvania last year, they and their parents spent weeks
trying to figure out what kind of ceremony would be meaningful and yet
different from the usual run-of-the-mill "big bash."

The Pauls opted for an innovative program created by Chabad-Lubavitch of
the Dead Sea called the "Masada Experience."

The idea is to breathe a little life into a female event that brings a
young girl into womanhood. Often a girl's passage into Jewish adulthood
moves quietly, with the modesty that is associated with traditional
Jewish womanhood.

This, says Chabad emissary Rabbi Shimon Elharar, does not have to mean
the event is not vital, exuberant and memorable. A man of his word,
Elharar himself appears inexhaustible, striding up the dusty path from
the entrance to the site straight to the chamber with nary a misstep.
The man simply never stops moving.

"We begin the Bat Mitzvah ceremony with reading of the Shema and
reciting of the chapters of psalms and selected prayers and sacred
texts," explains Elharar. "This is followed by a speech delivered by the
Bat Mitzvah, who is then in turn blessed by her father, who pronounces
the traditional blessing upon his daughters."

This first part of the celebration concludes with an award ceremony in
which the Bat Mitzvah girls receive special certificates, which include
a special blessing for them and their family. Rabbi Elharar then
describes the history and importance of Masada, past and present.

Following the ceremony in the ancient synagogue, the family moves to a
nearby stone room which, in centuries past, served as living quarters
for the Jews who rebelled against Rome.

Dressed in "Biblical" costume, a Jewish woman patiently awaits the
female members of the Bat Mitzvah girls' family and group of friends. An
enormous bowl of swelling challah (Sabbath bread) dough sits on a table
with the other items needed to prepare the festive loaves seen at every
Jewish celebration.

This is where the ceremony truly separates the men and the boys. The
male members of the group are waved off to the side as they enter the
chamber; welcomed, yes, but clearly participants only in the sense of
being the audience as the young women-to-be take center stage next to
the enormous challah bowl.

Sara Elise and Rebecca's father, his face wreathed in smiles, moves to
the corner of the chamber, his video camera at the ready to record the
occasion. The rabbi also stands back.

All eyes are on Sara Elise and Rebecca, their mother, grandmother and
the friends who came along for the life-changing event.

"Here on Masada," gently intones the Biblical re-enacter, "women baked
bread for their families just as you are about to do now. Two thousand
years ago, they kneaded the dough in exactly the same way, every day
.... "

She goes on to explain the commandment involved in separating out the
small piece of dough that symbolically represents the portion that was
once set aside for the priestly class. But, she adds, it is essential to
continue to observe this commandment so that "when the Third Temple is
rebuilt, we will not have forgotten, and will know what to do" once
again.

Smiling, after assisting each Bat Mitzvah through her first performance
of the commandment, to the applause of her family, the baker informs
them, "now together we will make new Sabbath loaves in this room and
thus we will repair and renew the links in the chain that were broken
here at Masada two thousand years ago."

Each woman and girl gets enough dough to make a small challah, which is
carefully placed on the baking sheet. Within minutes, Masada's heat has
inspired the yeast to expand the loaves enough for them to be placed in
the waiting oven.

The seminal rite of passage in which a Jewish girl legally enters
womanhood, says Rabbi Elharar, reminds the parents of their place in the
House of Israel in which "they are united with all others as one under
Heaven, participating in the acceptance of Torah Commandments and their
place among the Jewish People." This especially happens, he adds, "in a
place which also bequeaths to one a history replete with personal
sacrifice, such as occurred at Masada."

From a Jewish legal perspective, there is no particular action required
for a girl to take in order to declare her entry into womanhood, as
there is for a boy, who dons tefillin (phylacteries) and goes up to the
Torah as part of a minyan (quorum) for the first time.

But it is equally important today, says Elharar, for a girl to
understand that her passage into adulthood carries with it equal
significance, and with that, responsibility under Jewish law as well.

Although Judaism does not provide for any specific ceremony to mark that
passage, he adds, "There is no reason not to create a way for a girl to
celebrate that event. It is so pivotal; every girl should be able to
point to that time in her life, and say, 'Yes - this is how I celebrated
my becoming a Jewish woman.'"

For the Pauls, the fragrant loaves that emerged from the small after
they were shaped by Sara Elise and Rebecca and the women of their family
and her friends were not nearly as important as the journey they took to
get to them.

But as they munched on the warm challahs and drank the ice cold water
provided by Rabbi Elharar in the sweltering Judean heat of Masada, Sara
Elise and Rebecca's father reflected on the compulsion he had felt to
bring his daughters to Masada for their Bat Mitzvah. He had been dragged
back by his roots back to his Jewish homeland, he observed, "as surely
as the Zealots were tied to the land and willing to die, rather than
leave."

        Reprinted from IsraelNationalNews.com. IsraelNationalNews -
             Arutz Sheva, provides 24-hr. coverage of Israel Events

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                               WHAT'S NEW
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                             New Emissaries

Rabbi Yossi and Racheli Halperin recently arrived in Sofia, Bulgaria,
together with their three young children. They will be living in the
capital, Sofia, where they will be bolstering activities of
Chabad-Lubavitch in Bulgaria that was established eight years ago.

Rabbi and Mrs. Yochanon Monssouri will soon be moving to Lake Encino,
California, where they will establish a new Chabad House serving the
needs of the local Jewish Community.

Rabbi Shraga and Chani Marzel arrived recently in Prague, Czech
Republic. They are establishing a rabbinical college in the city that
was historically known for its great Jewish scholars. The yeshiva will
be based in the new Maharal Institute building.

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                            THE REBBE WRITES
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                 Erev [Eve of] Rosh Chodesh Shvat, 5743

At the outset, on behalf of Mrs. Schneerson as well as on my own behalf,
I wish to convey our sincere appreciation for your kind and considerate
care in connection to the recent incident that occurred with Mrs.
Schneerson. [Thank you] for your immediate response and home visitation
at an inconvenient hour, etc., [and] all this in addition to your having
provided her with your expert and skilled treatment and care.

I surely need not stress to you how important it is to the patient that
the doctor expresses personal interest and attention, particularly as
this constitutes a significant aspect in the patient's healing. As you
yourself correctly noted in the course of our conversation, the mind has
a critical degree of influence over the entire body and one's state of
mind directly affects the healing process.

We extend our thanks in anticipation as well of your continued interest
and assistance.

I hope and pray that G-d, "Healer of all flesh and Performer of
wonders," will bless you with success regarding all your patients,
including this present one.

I had occasion to hear a thought from my father-in-law, may the memory
of a tzaddik [righteous person] be for a blessing - a thought that has
its place in our Torah, which is called the Torah of Life (as it serves
as our guide and source of life) - that in order to assure the success
of the medical treatment, the remuneration for the doctor's services are
to be in keeping with the medical stature of the treating physician.

In point of fact, this principle applies to all professions and
services, including communal services. It need not be said that my
father-in-law put this into practice and I wish to do the same.

I therefore am taking the liberty to enclose my check, although I am not
sure whether this is the appropriate payment. I am sure, however, that
if this sum does not suffice, you will see to it that your secretary
contacts my secretary so that I will be able to rectify the matter.
Together with the payment comes the traditional Jewish blessing, "Use it
in good health."

One of the primary reasons for the above principle is the fact that the
Torah is aware that a doctor or someone with another occupation has
fiscal responsibilities to his family and community, etc.,
responsibilities that he can adequately take care of only if his
services are adequately paid for.

Therefore, if the receiver of the services does not satisfactorily
reimburse the provider of the service, a thought might arise in the
doctor's mind (fleeting as it might be) that it would be acceptable for
him next time to delay treating this individual in favor of an
individual who pays what is expected of him.

Consequently, the Torah strives to remove even the possibility of such a
thought. Thus, whatever occupation Providence had in mind for an
individual to carry out for the benefit of others, this will always be
done with total dedication and devotion.

Once again, my great thanks. With respect and personal regards,

P.S. After this letter was written, your official bill was received.
Enclosed please find a check. However, as I emphasized, this is a formal
payment while my letter and the [other] attached payment are on a
personal basis, as a much deeper and more personal gesture than that of
the formal relationship between doctor and patient.

       From Healthy in Body, Mind and Soul compiled by Rabbi Sholom
                        B. Wineberg, published by Sichos in English

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                                CUSTOMS
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   Why must dishes and utensils used for food be immersed in a mikva?

Before dishes and utensils can be used in the kosher kitchen they must
acquire an additional measure of holiness which is conferred through the
ritual immersion in a mikva. Even if a dish, pot, etc. was never used
and is therefore "kosher," it must still be immersed.

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                        A WORD FROM THE DIRECTOR
                         Rabbi Shmuel M. Butman
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The holiday-filled month of Tishrei is behind us, and we now find
ourselves in the Hebrew month of Marcheshvan. The name is derived from
the word "mar," meaning "drop," as it is in Marcheshvan that the rainy
season begins (in the Land of Israel).

In general, winter is the time for rain, while summer is the time for
dew. Rain and dew are physically both water, but like everything else in
the material world, these phenomena contain an important spiritual
lesson for us to learn.

The Torah teaches that rain is dependent on the quality of our service
of G-d. G-d causes the rain to fall in the merit of our prayers. If we
don't behave as we should, G-d punishes us by withholding His
life-giving waters. Dew, by contrast, falls "by itself" - independent of
our actions. G-d causes the dew to regularly replenish the earth without
any effort on our part.

The physical manifestations of rain and dew also express a basic
distinction between summer and winter. In the summer, the world receives
G-d's blessings without much exertion. In the winter, it is much more
difficult to obtain His blessings, and we have to work hard for them. In
fact, the Previous Lubavitcher Rebbe once stated that "The service of
G-d is easier in summer than in winter."

But don't worry, G-d makes sure that we have the necessary strength for
the coming frigid months. Tishrei, the "chodesh hashevi'i" ("seventh
month" when counting from Nisan) is described as "musba" ("satiated and
full"), from the same root word as "sheva" ("seven"). Luckily (but of
course, there is no such thing as chance in the Divine plan), the month
of Tishrei is so chock-full of mitzvot and everything good that it gives
us the ability to perform our G-dly service throughout the entire
winter.

So don't hesitate to jump in and "get your feet wet." Because rain or
shine, it's always the right weather for doing a mitzva.

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                          THOUGHTS THAT COUNT
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All flesh has corrupted his way on the earth (Gen. 6:12)

In the days before the flood, the moral situation had deteriorated to
the point that even those who by their nature recognized the difference
between right and wrong lost that sensitivity and began to sin without
feeling a sense of guilt and wrongdoing.

                                                     (Baal Haturim)

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I have set My bow in the cloud, and it shall be a sign of My covenant
between Me and the earth...and I will remember My covenant...and the
waters will no more become a flood to destroy all flesh (Gen. 9:13-15)

Why does the rainbow signify that G-d won't bring another Flood? Before
the Flood, the clouds in the sky were thick and dense, obscuring the
light of the sun. The Flood, which cleansed and purified the earth, also
refined the clouds and made it possible for the rainbow to be observed,
a phenomenon caused by the sun's rays. The rainbow, a product of the
process of purification, is therefore symbolic of the Final Redemption,
which will come about through the refinement and elevation of the
physical world. Its appearance in the sky is a sign of the imminence of
Moshiach, as stated in the Zohar: "When a rainbow appears with its
shining multicolored hues - await the arrival of Moshiach." The
Messianic Era, in which the world will reach unprecedented levels of
holiness and refinement, is the culmination of that process of
purification.

                                   (The Rebbe, Parshat Noach, 5721)

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And G-d descended to see the city and the tower (Gen. 11:5)

Why does the Torah tell us that G-d "descended" to investigate? Isn't
G-d All-Knowing and All-Seeing, present in all worlds and omnipotent?
Rather, these words contain a lesson for mankind: One must always
investigate a matter thoroughly and never pronounce judgment on
something one has not personally witnessed.

                                                        (Our Sages)

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                            IT ONCE HAPPENED
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One Friday afternoon, the Baal Shem Tov came to a small town to spend
the holy Shabbat there. On his usual visits, it was his habit to stay in
the home of a wealthy householder who prized the honor of hosting the
Baal Shem Tov. This time, to the consternation of all, the Baal Shem Tov
announced that he would be spending the entire Shabbat in the shul
(synagogue).

When he arrived in shul, the Baal Shem Tov prayed at great length, all
the while weeping copious tears. The whole congregation joined him in
the emotional prayers, and they wept too, although they didn't know the
reason for their tears.

The Baal Shem Tov recited Psalms and enjoined the others to do the same.
When services came to an end, he sent the congregants home to enjoy
their Shabbat meal, instructing them to return and continue reciting
Psalms.

The next morning, the Baal Shem Tov followed his usual custom and
immersed himself before prayer. When he returned to the shul, he
announced in a hearty voice that he would be joining his usual host for
the Shabbat meal. The people were relieved, and a large crowd gathered
at the wealthy man's home, hoping to understand the meaning of the day's
events.

The Baal Shem Tov sat at the table in a happy mood, singing one Shabbat
melody after another. Suddenly a gentile walked into the room. The Baal
Shem Tov beckoned to the Russian to enter and join him at the table.

"Offer him some liquor," the Baal Shem Tov called out, and suddenly
glasses and bottles appeared in front of them. The Russian was pleased
to down one glass after another, and soon he was quite tipsy. Then the
Baal Shem Tov asked him, "Well, now, tell me what happened over there."

"Last night, the poritz (wealthy landowner) called in all his local
fellows. He was very angry at the Jews for not buying his grains, and
ruining his income. He had to put all his merchandise into storage and
he lost a fortune when it began to rot. So, he decided to get them back,
those Jews. All the local fellows gathered at the poritz's manor and got
good and drunk, while the poritz incited them against the Jews. They
were told that tonight was the night to attack the Jews - not only in
town, but wherever they could be found. Whatever they could grab would
be theirs.

"All of a sudden a man walked into the house, and the poritz stood up to
greet him. They embraced like long-lost brothers and went into another
room where they stayed for a few hours, while the crowd of hooligans
drank more and more. It turns out that the visitor was none other than
the poritz's best school chum, whom he hadn't seen in a dozen years.
They sat together talking and reminiscing, and in the course of their
conversation, the poritz told his friend about his plan to punish the
Jews for destroying his business. 'How can you think such a crazy
thing?' asked the friend. 'Can't you see that you're being led around by
the nose by the enemies of the Jews? Listen to me: of all your local
people, it's only the Jews you can really trust not to cheat you.
Remember my old estate manager, Moshke? If not for him I would have been
bankrupt more times than I care to count!' Their conversation continued
in that vein, and when he came out of the room, the poritz had been
completely convinced not to harm the Jews. In fact, he now felt that
they were his best friends. Who could figure that one out? He paid off
the drunken peasants and sent them on their way."

The Russian thanked the Baal Shem Tov for the fine liquor and left.
Everyone in the room was perplexed and waited for an explanation. The
Baal Shem Tov was obviously pleased at what the gentile had told him,
and he explained to the crowd, "I saw from Mezhibozh that there was a
great danger hanging over this community and therefore I came to spend
Shabbat here. As you know, the poritz had raised his grain prices to the
point that no one wanted to buy from him. As a consequence, he suffered
a tremendous loss, and the local priest and his cronies took the
opportunity to slander the Jews.

"The poritz was convinced that the Jews were conspiring against him, and
he devised a plan to destroy them. I knew that there was only one person
who could persuade him otherwise, and that was his old friend. The only
problem was that he had passed away years ago. I was forced to bring him
back into this world to avert this terrible tragedy. Thank G-d, I had
success."

The people now understood the heartfelt prayers and the night of
reciting Psalms. They were both shocked and relieved at what the Baal
Shem Tov had related to them. Then, one of them turned to the Baal Shem
Tov and asked, "One thing I don't understand: Why did you have to come
here to perform the miracle? Surely you could have done it from
Mezhibozh and spared the journey."

The Baal Shem Tov nodded. But then he went on to explain that if, G-d
forbid, his intervention had not been successful, he had desired to be
together with his fellow Jews in the time of their great ordeal. The
people saw the depth of the love the Baal Shem Tov had for them and the
extent of self-sacrifice that the tzadik of the generation has for every
Jew.

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                            MOSHIACH MATTERS
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The animals lived peaceably in Noah's ark and so, too, will all the
world when Moshiach comes, as prophecized by Isaiah (11:6-9), "The wolf
will live with the lamb, the leopard will lie down with the young goat
together with the calf, the young lion and the ox; and a little child
will lead them. The cow and the bear will graze, their young will lie
down together; the lion will eat straw like an ox. The nursing child
will play on the hole of the snake, the weaned child will stretch his
hand over the den of the viper. They shall do no evil nor shall they
destroy... for the earth will be full of the knowledge of G-d, as the
waters cover the sea."

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                END OF TEXT - L'CHAIM 1043 - Noach 5769
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