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             THE WEEKLY PUBLICATION FOR EVERY JEWISH PERSON
   Dedicated to the memory of Rebbetzin Chaya Mushka Schneerson N.E.
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        November 21, 2008     Chayei Sara      23 Cheshvan, 5769
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                              Be Redundant

Cn u rd ths? Of course you can. Why? Because communication is redundant.
In fact, without redundancy, we couldn't communicate. How so?

When we receive a message, our brains take the series of words and
processes them; once processed, we understand the meaning of the
message. But how do we know how to process, to uncode, the words or
symbols and reconstruct them into something meaningful? How do we
extract meaning from apparent nonsense, from what might be random
symbols or noise?

Part of the process involves repetition and pattern recognition. An
infant hears a lot of sounds, but after a while if the parents say
"chair" and point to a chair, the child gets the idea.

Further, each language has its own set of rules, so that we can fill in
the patterns and anticipate the meaning. Thus, in English "ch--r" can be
"chair" or "cheer," but not "chykr" - not just because no such word
exists, but also because that pattern doesn't fit the rules of English.

This is where redundancy comes in. Every sentence or message has extra
clues that help us understand it even if it's garbled. If the phone has
static, but you can still figure out what your partner's saying about
the deal he just closed - it's because of the redundancy built into the
language.

According to information theory, redundancy is a safety mechanism, to
make sure messages get through even if they're damaged in transit. The
safety mechanism consists of "patterns and structures and sets of rules"
that build redundancy into language, and make sure communication occurs.

The concept of redundancy, the need to repeat information, for a message
to contain extra bits or clues to get through, has a parallel in our
efforts to communicate with G-d. After all, when it comes to prayer, one
of the most frequent questions involves the supposed redundancy of
prayer.

Why can't we pray only when we feel like it? Why do we have to use the
words in the prayer book? Why can't we make up our own prayers? Why are
the prayers always the same?

Now that we've begun to understand the role of redundancy in information
theory, we can also begin to understand the answer to the typical
questions about prayer.

Why can't we pray only when we feel like it? The answer is, of course,
you can. And most of us do. "When the spirit moves us," we pray. But if
we understand that we connect to and communicate with G-d through
prayer, and that communication requires redundancy, and that redundancy
requires rules and structures, well, then, we need to "follow the
rules,"  to pray at the most effective time.

Why must we use the words in the prayer book? Why can't we make up our
own prayers? Again, you can make up your own prayers. But the words in
the prayer book, established by our Sages, are the most effective way of
communicating with G-d. They contain the necessary information for us to
make the connection and get our meaning across. After all, if you think
there's static on a cell phone, that's nothing compared to the static
across the "spiritual divide."

Why are the prayers always the same? The answer to this question, even
more than the others, involves redundancy. It's the repetition that
makes meaning. Repetition reveals the rules, and distinguishes between
sounds that form a meaningful message and sounds that are just random,
meaningless noise.

The "redundancy" of prayer thus does two things: it shows G-d that we
mean what we say, and it allows us to say what we mean.

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           LIVING WITH THE REBBE  -  THE WEEKLY TORAH PORTION
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This week's Torah portion, Chayei Sara, recounts the very first marriage
in the Torah. Abraham sent Eliezer, his faithful servant, to his
relatives in Mesopotamia, where Eliezer was destined to meet Rebecca,
Isaac's intended.

Rashi, the great Torah commentator, explains that Eliezer's actual
journey was miraculous. "I have come today," Eliezer declared to
Rebecca's father and brother, Betuel and Laban. "Today I set out, and
today I arrived," comments Rashi, noting that Eliezer reached his
destination - a journey of 17 days in ancient times - on the very day he
embarked.

Why was it necessary for G-d to make a special miracle for Eliezer?
Furthermore, why did Eliezer find it necessary to mention it to Betuel
and Laban? Rebecca, matriarch of the Jewish people, is described in the
Midrash as "a rose among the thorns." Righteous and pure, Rebecca lived
the first few years of her life surrounded by "thorns," the wicked
Betuel and Laban.

As anyone who has plucked a rose knows, it is not easy to free the rose
from its prickly surroundings. Indeed, the thorns exist solely in the
merit of the rose, for it is because of the rose that the gardener
cultivates and nurtures the plant.

Similarly, the holy Zohar describes the spiritual struggle exerted by
the forces of evil against the pure and G-dly soul of the Jew. For, like
the thorns, these forces derive their sustenance precisely in the
presence of the greatest holiness.

Betuel and Laban rightly understood that it was in Rebecca's merit that
their household had been blessed, and were reluctant to allow her to
leave. For the first three years of her life, too young to be
successfully transplanted to the holy environment in which she belonged,
Rebecca was surrounded by unholiness. On the very day she turned three,
when - according to Jewish law she could be betrothed - Abraham sensed
that the proper time had arrived to free the rose from its prickly
environment.

Eliezer was dispatched without delay, and a miracle was wrought so that
Rebecca would not have to spend even one extra moment in an improper
atmosphere. Eliezer's task was to convince Betuel and Laban that G-d had
destined Rebecca to be Isaac's wife, and that they had no power to
prevent her departure.

"I have come today!" he declared, knowing that they would try to delay
her leaving. "Destiny cannot wait! Today I have come, for I must bring
her back with me at once!"

"The deeds of the fathers provide instruction for their sons," our Sages
teach. From Eliezer's journey we learn that when the moment for
Redemption arrives, it cannot be delayed for even one second. If need
be, miracles will be wrought to ensure that the Redemption occurs at
exactly the proper time.

We must therefore not be disheartened by the length of our present
Exile, for just as the Jewish people were redeemed from Egypt "on the
selfsame day" when the exact moment for liberation arrived, the Final
Redemption with Moshiach will likewise take place immediately and
without delay at the proper time, speedily in our days.

                   Adapted from Likutei Sichot of the Rebbe, Vol. I

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                             SLICE OF LIFE
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                         From the Mountain Top
                           by Helen Schwimmer

After immersing ourselves in 3000 years of Judaic teachings and
breathing the rarified air of Jewish wisdom, they warned us it wasn't
going to be easy to descend from the mountain.  Who would want to? We
were ensconced in the magnificent Canyon Resort in Park City, Utah, the
home of this year's National Jewish Retreat where exceptional teachers
like the keynote speaker, Rabbi Manis Friedman, literally kept us on the
edge of our seats begging for more.

The Rohr Jewish Learning Institute (JLI) provided a non-stop smorgasbord
of Judaism, beginning with morning movement and meditation and ending
with a midnight discussion, so that we were absorbing knowledge even as
we barbecued, hiked and baked challah.  We were mindful that we were
pioneers exploring the exciting new frontier of transforming our modern
Jewish life through Torah study in workshops on topics as diverse as
medical utopias of the future, the parent/child dynamic, Talmudic
ethics, the American Jewish experience, and a kabbalistic understanding
of communication.

This enriched environment raised awareness of our communal
responsibility as G-d's emissaries, his shluchim, who have been
entrusted to share the Torah's guiding light with the entire world.
After five stimulating days we reluctantly bid farewell to our
mountaintop retreat and returned home determined to continue our
journey.

Back on terra firma, I found the mainstream media abuzz with the latest
groundbreaking scientific discovery, courtesy of Microsoft.  A massive
study of electronic communication concluded that any two people are
separated by an average 6.6 degrees, which means that everyone is
actually linked to everyone else in the world by just six people.  For
example, you are one degree from everyone you know, two degrees from
everybody they know and so on.

Eric Horvitz, one of the Microsoft researchers who conducted the study,
admitted that he was shocked by the scope of the findings. "What we're
seeing suggests there may be a social connectivity constant for
humanity," he said, predicting that this knowledge could ultimately have
a profound effect in the areas of politics, social interactions,
disaster relief and missing person searches.  He marveled that, "They
could create large meshes of people who could be mobilized with the
touch of a return key."

Hello? Thank you, science, for finally catching up to what the Jewish
world has known since Abraham.   Ultimately we're all connected - one
people created by one G-d.  But instead of being separated by six
degrees, as anyone who has ever played Jewish geography can confirm, for
us it's usually just two or three.

At the same time the Microsoft darlings were wowing the media with their
research findings, my son Andrew and his wife Tzippi were reaching the
same conclusions while they traveled through Europe. When they needed a
Shabbat meal or lodging there was always a Jewish presence, "a large
mesh of people" that were there for them, all emisarries of the
Lubavitcher Rebbe.  In Antwerp, Belgium it was Rabbi Shabtai and Richa
Slavaticki; in Munich, Rabbi Yisroel and Chana Diskin; in Copenhagen,
Rabbi Yitzchok and Rochel Lowenthal.

Long before the Internet united the world via pixels of light and the
"touch of a return key," the Lubavitcher Rebbe sent out emissaries who
dotted the globe with Chabad Houses.  These human points of light have
permeated not only the Jewish universe but have circumnavigated the
globe with the moral teachings of our Torah, the ultimate "social
connectivity constant for humanity."

    Helen Zegerman Schwimmer is the writer and producer of the video, "A
    Taste of Shabbos with Rebbetzin Esther Winner."  Her latest book,
    "Like The Stars of the Heavens," is an anthology of her articles
    originally published in The Jewish Press.

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                            THE REBBE WRITES
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                     Freely translated and adapted

                         6 Shevat, 5713 (1953)

Surely I need not draw your attention to the deeper meaning of the
concept that the Jewish people are "the one nation on earth" - not only
the simple meaning that Jews believe in one G-d and in one Torah, but
that they draw down unity [("oneness")] into all aspects of this world.

This is to say that there is no disunity and plurality within this world
at all: just as G-d is one with an utter and simple unity, so, too, is
unity and singularity found within all worldly aspects, particularly
since the physical and the spiritual are not separate entities, but are
truly one. It's just that G-d allowed for the possibility [for man to
believe the opposite of the truth] - as our Sages, of blessed memory,
say: "Let he who desires to be mistaken come and be mistaken."

This is part of the mission of the Jew: that he himself understand and
sense G-d's unity and make this aspect of Divine unity understood to
those in his surroundings, and, to the greatest extent possible, to all
those upon whom he has influence.

The same holds true with regard to one's health: When one needs to
improve and increase his physical health and well-being, he should do so
in conjunction with and with a concurrent and corresponding increase in
his spiritual health and well-being - in the words of our Sages:
"Whoever will increase, will see an increase."

In light of the above, I am taking the liberty to bring to your
awareness that it would be beneficial for your father shlita to increase
his study sessions in our Torah, the Torah of Life.

It is through Torah that "He has implanted in us eternal life." One of
the meanings of this passage is that even though we live within this
corporeal world, we live a true [eternal] life - something that should
be felt within one's physical body as well.

This is also in keeping with the ruling of the Rambam in Hilchos Deos,
the beginning of ch. 4, where he states that "maintaining a healthy and
whole body is an integral part of Divine service."

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                      11 Marcheshvan, 5715 (1954)


... Of course one must obey the instructions of the doctor when he says
that you must take care of your health, and indeed, this is the Torah
command, "Scrupulously guard your health." However, when G-d inscribed
this in His Torah, He concurrently wrote about the importance of
performing deeds of righteousness and kindness (tzedakah v'chessed).

Surely, then, it is possible to act in this manner [of performing deeds
of righteousness and kindness] where not only will this not harm your
health, but on the contrary [it will improve it,] for the satisfaction
and pleasure felt when doing a good deed strengthens and enhances [not
only a Jew's spiritual health, but also] a Jew's physical health.

The same is true with regard to your situation [and your difficulties in
speaking loudly]: even if you will not speak loudly, people will surely
be able to hear what you are saying. ...

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                     20th of Cheshvan, 5712 (1951)


I received your letter of November 12th in which you inform me that you
expect to enter the hospital on Tuesday.

I pray and trust that everything will be well, and that you will soon be
able to send me the joyous news about the birth of a child.

I would suggest that you have with you at the hospital a kosher mezuzah,
which should be kept in an envelope within an envelope and wrapped in an
oilcloth (or other waterproof cloth). Keep this as near to you as
possible, viz., under your pillow or in the table by your bedside, until
you leave the hospital.

... It would be a good thing if you would take upon yourself, jointly
with your husband, to contribute (without making a vow) to kosher
charities an amount equal to the cost of the delivery...

I wish you a good delivery and a normal and healthy offspring, and am
looking forward to hearing good news of the happy event.


        Reprinted from Healthy in Body, Mind and Soul, compiled and
     translated by Rabbi Sholom B. Wineberg, published by Sichos in
                                                            English

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                                CUSTOMS
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        Why is the "bima," the elevated platform where the Torah
            is read, located in the center of the synagogue?


The bima is in the center for numerous reasons:

 1. It is symbolic of the altar which was in the center of the Holy
    Temple;

 2. Since it is primarily used for reading the Torah, its central
    location makes it easier for everyone to hear;

 3. The Holy Temple stood in the center of the universe to diffuse
    its spiritual light throughout the world. So, too, the bima where
    the Torah is read is in the center to convey that its teachings
    should radiate to the entire world;

 4. It reminds us of the encampment of the Jews in the desert, when
    the 12 Tribes formed a square around the Tabernacle;

 5. To indicate that the Torah belongs equally to all those present.

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                        A WORD FROM THE DIRECTOR
                         Rabbi Shmuel M. Butman
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There is a widespread misconception that we should not demand or even
ask for Moshiach. "When G-d is ready," some people erroneously posit,
"He will send Moshiach without our demanding him."

The principle of asking for Moshiach is biblical and can be traced back
to the times of our Prophets.

The great scholar, the Chatam Sofer, said that one must pray for
Moshiach. In fact, we see this reflected in our prayers to the point
where we actually ask for Moshiach 25,000 times each year!

The idea of actually demanding Moshiach - not just the more passive
requesting, but actually demanding - did not, however, originate in the
'70s, when the Rebbe encouraged young children the world over to make
"We want Moshiach now" their theme song.

One of the greatest Jewish leaders of the previous generation, the
Chafetz Chaim said that "We must demand Moshiach just as a worker
demands his wages."

In our Prophets (Zecharia 1:12) we read, "O L-rd - Ad Matai - How long
will You not have mercy on Jerusalem and on the cities of Judah...."

Also, in the special prayer known as "Tikun Chatzot" said each night at
midnight to mourn the destruction of Jerusalem and the Holy Temple, we
ask G-d how much longer - Ad Matai - six times.

We must remember, however, that our demand is not an ultimatum. We do
not say to G-d, "Either you bring Moshiach or I will stop doing such and
such a mitzva, or mitzvot all together." By demanding, we are showing
G-d that we truly care that we, and the Divine Presence, are in exile.

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                          THOUGHTS THAT COUNT
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And Abraham came to mourn for Sara (Gen. 23:2)

Abraham was coming from Mount Moriah, where he had just undergone the
trial of the binding of Isaac. Abraham eulogized Sara by announcing that
she did not voice any objection when he set out with her only son to
offer him as a sacrifice. Sara, like all Jewish mothers who follow her,
had instilled in her only son the desire to give up his life willingly
for the sanctification of G-d's name.

                                                     (Drush Shmuel)

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And G-d blessed Abraham in all things (Gen. 24:1)

The blessings which G-d bestows can be divided into three categories:
life, children, and livelihood. Abraham was blessed with all three. 1.
"And Abraham was old" - indicates that he was blessed with long life. 2.
"And G-d blessed Abraham" - indicates that he was a wealthy man. 3. "In
all things" - this refers to the blessing of progeny, for in Hebrew, the
sum of these letters is the same as the word for "son," indicating that
Abraham was blessed with children as well.

                                                      (Bnai Reuven)

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Isaac brought her into his mother Sara's tent, and he married Rebecca
(Gen. 24:67)

When Isaac took Rebecca as his wife, the Torah writes that he took her
"ha'ohela - into the tent." "Ha'ohela" is written eight times in the
Torah. These eight times allude to the eight places where the Divine
Presence was destined to rest among the Jewish people. The seven places
where the Divine Presence already rested were: the sanctuary in the
desert; Gilgal; Shilo; Nov; Givon; the First Holy Temple; and the Second
Holy Temple. The eighth place will be the Third Holy Temple which will
be built in the Messianic Era.

                      (Baal HaTurim as quoted in Discover Moshiach)

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                            IT ONCE HAPPENED
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The marriage took place amid great rejoicing, and the young couple were
the picture of happiness. Yet, not long after they were married, the
bride began to suspect that something was not right. Her husband would
wake at midnight to recite the prayers in mourning for the destruction
of the Holy Temple. Every day at the crack of dawn, he would go to
immerse himself in the mikva. And in addition to these strange
practices, he had a certain book he loved to read which he kept hidden
under his pillow.

The young bride, disquieted by her husband's unusual devotions,
described them to her father, who decided to investigate personally.
Entering the bedroom, he lifted up the pillow; the shock of his
discovery was worse than anything he had imagined. His son-in-law was
studying the book Toldot Yaakov Yosef written by one of the leaders of
the Chasidim of the Baal Shem Tov!

The father-in-law was determined to dissuade the young man from pursuing
this ruinous alliance with Chasidism. He tried every approach, but to no
avail. Finally, when he saw that the young fellow couldn't be budged,
the distraught father insisted on a divorce. But this extreme reaction
was vetoed by both the husband and wife, who were, in all other
respects, quite happy.

What could be done? At his wits end, the father sought advice from his
friends in the small town, all confirmed opponents of the new "sect."
The suggestions brought forth were many, but in the end there was more
smoke than fire - the resolution to the problem eluded them all. The
debate not only continued, but became, in fact, so bitter and angry,
that news of it reached the ears of the governor of the region, a
retired army officer. Curious about the cause of the great brouhaha, the
governor's interest intensified when he heard that it was all because of
a book. It was explained to him that the book in question was authored
by one Yaakov Yosef of Polonnoye, a man who led his co-religionists
"astray" by his erroneous teachings. The governor went so far as to
procure the said book and check the authorship, as this information was
also printed in the Russian language. Having satisfied himself, he
summoned the whole group of disputants and their fellow-travelers to
appear before him.

"The time has come," he said, "for me to tell of events which took place
one spring many years ago when I was serving as a colonel in the
Polonnoye district. It happened that my unit had orders to move out, and
so, the customary roll call was taken, only to discover that three
soldiers were missing. I sent two others to the adjacent town to find
them and bring them back. But they returned without their lost comrades,
telling a most incredible story. The missing men were discovered inside
the candle-lit home of an aged rabbi, standing like wax statues, unable
to speak or move. I found it impossible to believe such a tale, so I
dispatched another detail of men; but they returned with the same story.
The only thing left to do was to go myself, and that is what I did.

"Entering the house, I saw an old man with the angelic appearance of a
saint. When I dared, I addressed him, 'Forgive me for interrupting; I
see you are a holy man. But these soldiers must leave with their unit
today. Please allow them to leave your house.' The old rabbi replied,
saying, that these men must have stolen something. If they replaced the
items, they will be free to depart. Sure enough, we discovered all
manner of silver vessels secreted in their greatcoats. We removed them
and they were freed."

These events occurred on the first night of Passover at the home of
Rabbi Yaakov Yosef. The roaming soldiers had entered the unlocked house,
helped themselves to the remaining holiday food, and then also the
silver vessels. They were undeterred by the presence of the old man who,
in any case, seemed to be asleep. But when they tried to leave, they
found themselves rooted to the floor and struck dumb.

The governor continued, "But when I saw this miracle, I requested from
the rabbi his blessing for long life. When I asked him exactly how long
I would live, he declined to say, replying that this is known only by
G-d. All he would say is that a time would come when I would be required
to relate this story to a group of Jews who did not know him. This would
be a sign that my days were ending. Now, I see the truth of his words,
but thanks to him, I have been able to bring this matter to a happy
conclusion."

The young couple lived out their days in peace, and the governor was
soon brought to his final rest.

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                            MOSHIACH MATTERS
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After Sara's passing, Abraham married Ketura and they had six sons, all
of whom grew up to be idol-worshippers. How could Abraham have had
children who defied the most basic teaching that he had devoted his life
to? Before the Redemption, it can happen that righteous people have some
children who grow up to be righteous and others who grow up to be evil.
But in the Days of Moshiach, all will be righteous, as it says (Isaiah
60:21), "They shall inherit the land forever; they are the branch of my
planting and the work of my hands in which I take pride."

                       (Bereshit Rabba quoted in Discover Moshiach)

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